To broke up with a partner because of smoking….

[Italy78]

Is it a good reason to broke up with a partner after 3 years hence he refuses to give up on smoking?

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[SimonaD]

Yes and No…Although if your partner loves you enough he should make the effort. This will be beneficial for him and for you! No one likes the smell of ash and cigarettes!
Be kind and supportive and help him! Arguments or ultimatums never go to something positive!
Good luck

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[Italy78]

Hi, thanks for the response. The issue is if he refuses to give up with smoking and the smell of cigarettes irritates the eyes and causes discomfort in general….what should be the solution?

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[IVANK]

I think he should understand and smoke outside for a start. But in the end you have to find out what is in it for him. He needs to be convinced he benefits from quitting not because you want him to quit. If smoking is a good way to relax, sacrificing a couple of years of life may be a small price to pay. Are you sure this is not your problem more than it is his?

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• This reply was modified 6 years, 4 months ago by CavaWoman.

[georgek]

smell of it is not pleasant but there are always solutions like brushing teeth and mouth or some gums or tic tac. Love is bigger than everything the biggest power

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• This reply was modified 6 years, 4 months ago by CavaWoman.

[Italy78]

Can I ask you directly after 3 years relationship if smoking becomes problem for mutual life/coexistance would you break down with your partner?

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[JS]

Me personally I wouldn’t but I will try to support and help him to give up on smoking.

Its an addiction and its a slow process.

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• This reply was modified 6 years, 5 months ago by JS.

[JS]

Italy78
What has happened with your partner? What have you decided?

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[Sylvia]

Hi Italy,

 

is there any progress on the topic?

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